The Relationship Stop Loss Rule- How To Have The Power To Walk Away!
Today’s tip is not directly related to how to give women orgasms.
However it does cover something much more fundamental.
It’s what I call the Relationship Stop Loss Rule, and its one of the biggest reasons why the spark goes out of so many relationships.
You see something weird happens when people and especially men get into a relationship with a woman.
They Go Soft! (not just physically)
What I mean by that is over the course of the relationship the guy starts failing the little tests that every woman gives her man. Tests that let her know how much control she has over him.
YES EVERY WOMAN.
Women test because its part of how they are conditioned to find a man who can take care of her in all the right ways. Pass the test, she gets more and more excited and tends to open her legs for you more and more, fail them and little by little her legs open less and less. and…
She starts looking to trade up.
Sound harsh?
Sometimes reality is harsh.
That’s why its so important to
- Set your rules,
- State your rules and
- Live by your rules
before, during, and in many cases after you get into a relationship.
If your woman starts violating your rules (and she will) its to test
- just how strong your character really is,
- how far you can be made to bend,
the more you bend, the less respect for you she will have over time and,…
the less sexually excitable she becomes as time goes on.
Make Sense?
Okay,
When your woman violates your rules, - call her on it, Immediately
Now keep in mind, as your relationship deeps as you place more value on her, the more “rule breaking” we men tend to accept. However…
You must always have set limit in your mind of exactly how much rule breaking your going to tolerate before you actually walk away.
And when she crosses the line…WALK AWAY!
No anger, no recriminations.
You Simply Fire Her and move on to someone who will respect you enough to live by your rules. You would be amazed how many men emasculate themselves, just to get or stay between a woman’s legs.
BAD IDEA.
The Relationship Stop Loss Rule, Is Not popular. It’s the rule women and many men hate the most.
Why?
Because it takes the power and control away from the women in your life and it puts that power back into yours.
and that’s exactly why many men do not like it either. Living by this rule Demands That You “ Man Up” it requires that you place a higher value on your own time and worth than you may have been use to doing.
It takes you out of the schmuck, category and places the responsibility for your own happiness exactly where it should always be… On You.
As one of my mentors used to say.
If you want your lover to be more of a woman… you need to be more of a man.
That’s it for now.
Man Up and Take Names.
Your Loyal Friend and Sex Mentor.
David Van Arrick